25 February 2009

Scenes From Daycare

Anders has been in daycare for a couple of months now and it has been working out extremely well. We love Zak, his parents and extended family. And of course, they all really enjoy our cute little Anders Rocket. Zak's grandfather stops by often to read stories. Zak's cousin Daniel, 7 years old, is frequently at the house playing. Zak's grandmother is nearby with veteran mom advice. Zak's dad Darrell is an expert laugher and cracks up Anders. And of course Zak's mom Debbie does all the hard work of giving Anders his daily dose of love while we're at work.

Some cute anecdotes:

  • One day Anders demonstrated a new skill and Zak said, "Mom! He's growing up! He's growing up RIGHT NOW!"
  • Another day when we came to pick up Anders, Zak was serving his mother and grandmother raisin sandwiches (slice of bread, folded in half; two raisins in the middle).
  • Debbie noticed that Zak was acting strange when we would come to pick up Anders. After talking with Zak about it, she determined that he doesn't like it when we take Anders home. Zak said, "Mom, can Anders just spend the night?"
  • When Zak wants to tell me something, he says, "Hey Anders's Mom...". I still don't answer well to that. Am I really someone's Mom?


Debbie has great ideas for new ways to interact with and stimulate Anders. Near the end of January, Anders decided that he really prefers to sit or stand even though he isn't capable of doing either himself yet. So, Debbie put a pillow in the bottom of a laundry basket and then draped it with a quilt. Voila - Anders's own sitting area. But then of course, Zak needed one too. Here they are playing in their "ships" (aka laundry baskets).






We feel very lucky. We're comfortable dropping him off in the morning because it's a pleasant place to be, and we can see that everyone enjoys the time together!




- Corinne, Mike, and Anders Rocket

23 February 2009

Huge Herd of Elk

On our way home from work, we ran across a huge herd of elk in a field about a mile from home. We estimate that the herd may have been as large as ~80!





Thankfully, none of these elk found it necessary to knock down our fence.

- Corinne, Mike, and Anders Rocket

20 February 2009

5 Months Old

Rocket has turned 5 months old!

On the day of his 5-month birthday, all three of us attended Insitu's Holiday Party (rescheduled for February due to December winter weather). Anders was not a big fan of the party. He found the band to be too loud. And he didn't like all the new people admiring him, squeezing his cheeks, and wiggling their fingers in his face. Everyone was so excited to see him but it was all just a bit too much. (And it certainly didn't help that I had to wake him from a nap to leave for the party.)

Our friend Eric captured some nice candid photos from the party.


Insitu did a nice job making sure that there were activities for the kids, but of course he's still too young to appreciate any of that. One fun aspect of the party was that they also had a professional photographer on hand taking portraits.




Ever since Draper's holiday party was rescheduled for February due to a similar weather situation back in 2004, we've been lobbying for the company party to be moved to February every year! There's already enough happening in December.

- Corinne, Mike, and Anders Rocket

14 February 2009

Donna Visits

For some reason we've been getting quite a few more visits from family recently... ;) A few days after our return from Boston, Donna came down for the weekend for some "quality Anders-time."




- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

05 February 2009

Recruiting in Boston

Corinne and I lived in Boston for quite a long time - 12 and 14 years, respectively. Since we've moved West, somehow we've still managed to make it back for a visit more often than we would have thought. This is our fourth trip since we moved in 2004! (2005, 2007, 2008) Despite the frequency, we know so many people in Boston that we still find it difficult to fit in visits with as many people as we would like. This trip was no exception, so if you didn't see us don't be offended! We do the best we can. ;) (Come visit us!)

Our flight went well, but things didn't go as well once we landed - but it had absolutely nothing to do with Rocket. In the process of getting the rental car and trying to make my way back to the terminal to pickup Corinne and Anders, I was reminded of how much of a pain in the *ss it can be to do simple things in Boston. As I said to Corinne when I picked them up, "I've only been in Boston for an hour and I'm already pissed off." Thankfully, the frustration passed quickly and the rest of the trip went smoothly.

We stayed with Becky and Gordon and their daughter Lily, who is now a little over 2 years old. Apparently Lily was very concerned that Anders was going to take her toys and eat her food. By the end of our visit, though, I think she had really warmed up to him. Becky and Gordon are due to have their second in May, so I think having Anders around was a good reminder of what they have to look forward to! Lily also gave us a small taste of what we have to look forward to as well.




We arrived in Boston Thursday evening and spent that night and most of the following day just relaxing around the house. On Friday night we met up with our friend Erin and her daughter Ava at one of their favorite dinner spots, Za in Arlington. Ava had even picked out some of her old toys to give to Anders! After a delicious dinner of interesting pizza and salads, we stopped by their apartment for some more conversation and "Anders-time" before calling it a night. We definitely tend toward the earlier evenings now that Anders is around. We find that no matter what time he goes to bed at night, he's always up bright and early!


Saturday morning, Corinne and Anders were able to join Becky and Lily at a kids music class. I'm not sure Anders really understood what was going on, but it never hurts to expose them to music (and art, books, puzzles, etc.) early - you just never know how much they absorb! Corinne certainly couldn't get that music class song out of her head for weeks, so hopefully some of it stuck with Anders as well. (Trot old Joe, Trot old Joe, You trot better than any horse I know...)


That same day Becky and Gordon hosted a brunch with our old MIT Aero/Astro group. The last time we got together they held a mini- baby shower for us, so it was only fitting that they meet Anders in person.


Every time we get together with this group, there are more little kids running around. But it was pretty interesting to see Anders interacting with some of the older ones. Dennis and Sara's two kids, Abigail and Caroline, were particularly interested in helping to take care of Anders.


Judy had fun entertaining Anders, and he clearly enjoyed it as well.

Sunday morning we went out to brunch with Amory, Brian, and Mike. This was our first time meeting Amory and Brian's daughter Elizabeth, and she was delightful. She and her dad had just come back a day earlier from an extended trip to his home country of Australia. She (or more accurately, her father) brought one of the "travel toys" to brunch: these stringy, waxy things that you would stick on paper to make patterns. But of course, they can go on the face, too.




After brunch we continued north to our next stop in New Hampshire. We have a long tradition of spending the Superbowl with our friends Serg & Stef, and our trip just happened to coincide with this year's event. The last time we saw them was about two and a half years ago, so we were long overdue for a visit.

Anders and Diego took turns as the center of attention. Diego showed us several of his Christmas and birthday presents, including a LEGO electric train set. We also spent some time playing an online "puzzle" game that he particularly liked called Bloxors. We all had fun playing that one; it was a particularly challenging game for a 4 year old! No visit would be complete without some sort of computer-related activity.


Diego even took the time to read a story to Anders. You really can't get much cuter than that.


Watching the actual game was never high on any of our lists (due to a "mutual lack of interest"), although in a "Patriots" year we were a bit more engaged. We eventually got around to watching this year's Superbowl in the way we usually do - on the DVR, fast-forwarding through most of the game and only playing the commercials at normal speed. Ah, technology.

The recruiting event at MIT that had precipitated the trip started on Tuesday, so on Monday we drove back to Boston to make sure the babysitters had arrived safely. But let me back up a little bit first...

When the idea of the Boston trip first came up we figured we would check with Becky to see if her daycare could take Anders for the two days that we would be busy interviewing. A few days later we were talking to Corinne's mom on the phone about the trip and she asked if my parents were going to drive up from NJ. "Oh no, I don't think so. It's a 4.5 hour drive, and it's only two days." The thought hadn't even occurred to us beforehand, and even when it was mentioned we discarded it out of hand. Not long after that we were telling my parents about our trip when they volunteered to drive up to watch him! I guess grand kids really do change things.

We arrived back in Boston at about the same time that my parents had finished checking-in to a B&B near where we were staying. Hooray, free and enthusiastic babysitters!




On one evening we even discovered a new game to worry Corinne:


Oh yeah, I almost forgot: there was the Job Fair at MIT that Insitu sent us there for in the first place! The turnout was a bit light, but I guess that is to be expected for a spring job fair. However, I think we made up for that with the quality of the people that we saw. On Wednesday we interviewed 8 or so people that we met on the previous day, with some followup interviews in WA likely.

The Insitu booth even ended up right next to the Infinera booth with our friend Sheila! (No, it wasn't in alphabetical order.) We were a bit hurried to get to our other appointments, but we did manage to spend an hour with her at Anna's Tacqueria to catch up. She'll just have to meet Anders another time.

We were hoping to go to dinner with her and some other friends that we haven't seen in a while, but we were feeling a bit under the weather and decided not to push our luck. At the beginning of the trip we'd had three night of pretty bad sleep. The first two nights were part of the Crazy 24 Hours and First Flight of the Rocket posts (respectively) leading up to our arrival in Boston. And during our first night in Boston, the air mattress on which we slept leaked pretty badly and left us lying on the floor in the middle of the night. Lack of sleep has a way of catching up with you, especially with a baby.

On our final evening in town, we had dinner on campus with Paul and Robin, Corinne's undergraduate adviser and his wife. It would seem that campus life has as much drama as ever.

In our last few hours before heading to the airport, we stopped by Draper Labs to check in on all of Corinne's old colleagues and show off the current state of the Rocket project. They are a fun and talented group, and I know that Corinne misses working with them. She must do good work, too, since some of the "toys" that she designed are still being used there 5+ years later.

To finish, I thought I'd leave you with a list of some of the Pros/Cons of being back in Boston:
  • PRO: Christina's Ice Cream. Maple walnut, Black licorice, Peppermint. Nothing beats New England for homemade ice cream!
  • CON: Snow in the city is ugly and makes the roads 30% narrower.
  • CON: Everyone on the road should be considered a hazard.
  • PRO: Public transit. (See above.)
  • CON: Falling down an escalator in an MBTA station hurts. Unfortunately, this is one that I learned firsthand on this trip. Doh.
  • PRO: Getting to see our friends again!
  • CON: Having too many friends and not being able to see them all.

- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

30 January 2009

First Flight of the Rocket

Rocket got his first airplane flight earlier than we had originally planned. Insitu signed up to participate in an engineering job fair at MIT, and of course the obvious people to go would be the MIT alums. Free trip to Boston! We'd take Rocket with us and extend the trip to visit with as many of our friends as we could fit in. More on the trip will be coming later, but his first flight deserves its own post!

Our flight left Portland early on Thursday morning, so we booked a hotel room next to the airport for Wednesday night. After our exhausting previous day and the departure flight early the following morning, we had intended to head to bed early. However, it didn't quite work out that way; I think we made it to bed sometime before 11pm. Anders slept in the corner of our tiny hotel room, swaddled in blankets, on top of Corinne's down coat, with a chair as a barrier so that we didn't accidentally step on him in the middle of the night.

Aside from having to get up early, traveling with him was pretty easy. Our airline tickets were pretty inexpensive - particularly for a non-stop flight across the country - so we bought him his own seat and brought along his car seat and associated stroller frame. He was an easy traveler, sleeping for much of the flight out.




When he wasn't sleeping, he was as happy as can be. He was particularly interested in checking out everyone else on the plane when I walked him up and down the aisle. Of course part of that was to show him off, too.


A kid like this makes the parents look GOOD - but he deserves all of the credit!

- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

28 January 2009

Crazy 24 Hours

Here's our story of the craziest 24 hours we've had in quite a while...

It started off fairly mundane. Tuesday morning Anders required three diaper changes in order to get out of the house (thankfully, only a single outfit). We dropped him off with Debbie and spent a normal morning at work.

At around 1pm Corinne and I picked up Anders and started toward Portland. We had agreed to represent Insitu's software department at a special hiring event there on the condition that we could take our little guy with us. The company rented out a large meeting room at a hotel and set up tables staffed by each of the areas of the company that have openings (which is basically all of them). On our way there I-84 was starting to get messy from a combination rain and sleet, so the going was slow and we arrived just in time for the beginning of the event. Initially I had thought that the bad weather might deter people, but I had forgotten about the state of the economy...

HR estimated that over 1,000 people showed up at this Insitu-only job fair! During the first three hours of the four hour event, the Software/Avionics table alone had a line of between 30-50 people waiting to speak to one of us. As a result the event became less one-on-one interviewing and more speed dating. I wish I had taken some pictures, particularly of Corinne talking to potential candidates in the middle of a crowded room, with Anders on her shoulder.

When the event was over, we packed Anders back into the car and started the drive back to the Gorge. The weather had cleared by now, and the roads were relatively quiet. Corinne sat in the back seat with Anders, and for a while both were asleep. But it was when we arrived in Hood River that the real "excitement" of the evening occurred.

Since Anders had been asleep for some time, Corinne decided that she would move to the front passenger seat to keep me company. So when we stopped at the stop sign at the bottom of our exit, Corinne hopped out of the car to change seats. As soon as she closed the back door she heard skidding from behind us and saw another car coming down the exit ramp, and it clearly wasn't going to stop in time. She ran from our car and watched as Anders and I were rear-ended! The impact pushed us a car length or so into the intersection, which thankfully was empty. Once our car stopped moving, Corinne hopped back in the car and we pulled off to the side of the road.

Anders - who had been sleeping in the back seat - awoke and started crying. Our initial concerns, of course, were whether he was okay. After a minute or so, though, he stopped crying and then smiled at Corinne. After I had exchanged information with the other driver and contacted our insurance company, I had to keep my calm so that I could drive us all home.

It all happened so fast. It's only when we think back on it that we realize what could have happened and how much worse it could have been. I mean, Corinne wasn't even in the car! The other vehicle was actively trying to stop, so by the time he hit us he wasn't going terribly fast, and both our bumpers did what they are designed to do. The next day I wasn't even sore, and a quick call to our pediatrician allayed any remaining fears we had about Anders.

But Tuesday night wasn't done yet. Since we were leaving for a trip to Boston the following day, we stayed up late that night to finish packing. At around 1am, in the middle of doing laundry, the power went out. Dang wind storms! So we went to bed. Corinne woke up around 2:30am to lights on all over the house; the power had come back. So she got up, restarted the laundry and then headed back to bed, exhausted.







The car repairs would have to wait until we returned from our trip. The damage doesn't look that bad at first glance, but we suspect that the repairs will be fairly extensive; there is damage to at least one of the side panels, the back door will need to be replaced, and the hitch looks bent as well. The accident was clearly the other drivers' fault; unfortunately, he had let his insurance lapse just a few months earlier. Thank goodness for "uninsured motorist" insurance.

I hope it is a long time before we have another day like that!

- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

20 January 2009

Rocket Is Four Months Old

We can't quite believe it, but Rocket is now over 4 months old. Milestones hit during that fourth month:

  • Head control. You don't have to support his head when you hold him anymore.
  • Kung-fu action grip. He has much better control of his arms now, and will grab things and hold them - though it is clear that he has to concentrate.
  • Talking. No, we're not talking about actual words here, but the sounds he makes have become more complex, including...
  • Giggling. It's awesome! His laughs make you want to laugh, which of course makes him laugh more.

He still sleeps through the night (9pm-5am or so), thank goodness. And we're continuing to swaddle him when he sleeps, although he manages to get one or more arms out by morning at least half of the time.

When his pseudo big brother Zak found out that it was Anders's 4 month birthday, he just had to make sure that he got a balloon to celebrate! I'm sure you'll be seeing some photos of Zak here eventually, along with a litany of hilariously cute quotes from him as well.


Both Corinne and I even stopped by daycare at lunchtime to take photos with Anders in the natural daylight, but of course that was the one day that he decided to nap through lunch. By that night he was exhausted.


- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

15 January 2009

Generational Shawl

Anders is a bit of a slow eater. When he nurses, it often takes 45 minutes or more before he inevitably falls asleep. Yes, that is a long time. It should be noted, however, that he will finish a bottle in 5-10 minutes, so I guess he must just enjoy Mom's company.

During that time Corinne can get cold. But my Mom provided a solution in the form of a shawl that she knitted and used when I was a baby!


- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

08 January 2009

Childbirth Class Reunion

Back when Corinne was pregnant with 'Rocket', we decided that we would take a childbirth class at the local hospital. We didn't really learn that much in the class; we joke that the best thing about the class was that it forced us to watch those "labor and delivery" videos that we would never watch on our own. And the walk around the Hood River Hospital maternity ward certainly didn't help when he was born in Seattle. But it was good to meet some other parents who would have kids around the same age.

Now that all of the kids have been born we all got together for a "childbirth class reunion" to meet the new arrivals! We got together at a local brewery (ironic, huh?) on a Thursday night. Anders had the latest due date, but because he was born 3+ weeks early and another baby was several weeks late he ended up being the second youngest of the group. It was interesting to see the different looks of each of the kids, and how much they really did look like their parents.

Towards the end of the evening we put all the kids on the couch for a group shot. Unfortunately because Anders's had been nursing just prior to the photo, he was pretty sleepy; he slept through the whole photoshoot.


Anders on the far right

We also got one with the whole families, complete with brewing equipment in the background.



- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

07 January 2009

First Vaccinations

Anders just received his first vaccinations - Rotavirus (oral) which protects against rotavirus and DTaP (shot) which is for diptheria, tetanus, and pertussis (whooping cough). He is such a trooper. After the shot, he only cried for a couple of seconds and it was only a "you have annoyed me" cry rather than his truly upset cry. Meanwhile, I had tears running down my face in anticipation of how I thought he would respond.

Vaccines are a somewhat controversial topic for many parents these days. We held off on giving him any until we had a chance to do research and make our own decisions. For anyone wanting more information about vaccines, we found the The Vaccine Book by Robert Sears (2007) to be very helpful. The book talks about the societal positives of vaccinating as well as the possible negatives of each individual disease and its vaccine. He also provides several alternative vaccination schedules that minimize (in his view) possible side effects while still resulting in a vaccinated child. Mike heard the author on a recent episode of our favorite radio show, This American Life. Dr. Sears quoted Star Trek: "The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few - or the one."


Contemplating the needs of the one

On a lighter daycare note, Zachary had gotten out his baby (doll) so that the babies could talk. On our way out, Zachary said, "Bring the baby back tomorrow!"

- Corinne, Mike, and Anders Rocket

06 January 2009

Back To Work

January 6th was my first day back to work. I can't say that I was very excited to go but it wasn't so bad after all. Since I didn't have to deal with any work politics on that first day it actually was fairly pleasant. I'm only working part time so I just have to make it through three days before I get to enjoy "Anders Days" again.

For childcare, we found a stay-at-home mom, Debbie, to watch Anders. She lives close to work so I can easily walk over at lunch time to nurse Anders. The cutest thing is that Debbie's 3 1/2 year old son Zachary had this Christmas request: "I want a baby for Christmas... a REAL one."

Anders did really well on his first day in "daycare", but he did cry when I handed him over to Debbie. I honestly didn't think he'd care or notice but I guess he does! Good to know Mom is number #1 even if I don't get the most smiles.

When I stopped by at lunch, Zachary was on the floor right next to Anders making up stories about his duck to tell Anders. So adorable! I think Zachary and Anders will both enjoy each other.

In honor of work, here is my management team head shot, taken when I was about 7.5 months pregnant. The photographer cropped it such that you can't tell that my jacket doesn't fit around my then very pregnant belly. (Well, now that you know the secret, you probably can tell!)

- Corinne, Mike, and Anders Rocket

02 January 2009

Favorite Recipes of 2008

It's time for the 2008 installment in the Favorites Recipes series. (Here are the previous years' installments: 2007, 2006.) For some reason we didn't seem to do as much experimentation with new recipes this year as in previous years, but we did manage to come up with some real winners.

#1: Pork Burros
Source: Ilvedson family recipe
We learned this first one from Corinne's Mom last January. She originally got it from a friend of hers when she was living in Los Angeles around 1970, and it was a recipe that she formulated as a recreation of a favorite local restaurant dish. Corinne was served this dish often as a kid. We made this one a lot this year, and it is a great "make lots and freeze" dish, particularly since you start with a 5lb pork shoulder. Tasty, tasty.

#2: Roasted Garlic Herb Oil
Source: Ilvedson family recipe
This one is a cheat - we've had this recipe for some time. But we did make it quite a bit this year, including making it as gifts. Have some on hand and you have a really easy way to quickly season roasted veggies.

#3: Enchiladas Lasagna
Source: Alton Brown
Alton is our hero. This is some really good stuff, and easy. I suggest making a large batch of the enchilada sauce at one time, then freezing in appropriate sizes. The original recipe didn't call for spinach in the filling, but I had some lying around the first time I made it and figured that I could bump up the nutrition. Worked great, and I've used it ever since.

#4: Quick Bean Cassoulet
Source: Sunset Magazine (by way of The Oregonian)
Our friends Jamie and Torsten introduced us to this one. Beans, chicken and sausage make this casserole a heart-warming meal. We almost never have leftover chicken, but even if you have to cook chicken it's still quick and easy. And delicious. A good comfort food for those colder days.

#5: Brown Sugar Cookies
Source: Cooks Illustrated, Mar 2007
These cookies are sort like chocolate chip cookies, but with a richer flavor (and no chips). Use "real" brown sugar with these for the best flavor; most grocery store brown sugars are simply white sugar with molasses sprayed on them.

#6: Chewy Chocolate Cookies
Source: Cook's Illustrated, Jan 2009
These are some seriously good chocolate cookies. Use good chocolate (Callebaut, Valrhona, etc.) The chocolate chunks might seem like they are too big, but they bake up perfectly, leaving nice sized chocolate goodness in each cookie. I think they taste better after a day or so - but who can wait? The recipe makes 16 large cookies, so consider forming the balls slightly smaller and/or making a double batch.

What were your favorite recipes this year? Send them to us!

- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket

01 January 2009

Max's 2008 Critter Count

The end of the year is a good time to review the accomplishments of the previous year, and it's no different for a cat.

Max had a productive 2008. This was the year that we finally allowed him outside on his own without supervision (though we do still restrict it to daylight hours.) As a result, his catches for the year included:

Of course, it wasn't all positive. He also got stuck up a tree, was chased by a coyote, disappeared for 3 days, and gave Leif poison oak.

But the important thing is that he's still here, doing well, and I'm sure he's looking forward to the spring thaw so that he can start hunting again.

As a celebration of the successes of the year, Max and I played "Guitar Hero". Sort of.


- Mike, Corinne, Anders Rocket, and Max

31 December 2008

New Year's Pajama Party

For New Year's our friends Amy and Andrew hosted a pajama party. They couldn't decide if they wanted to go out partying or just stay home in their PJs, so they decided to do both. Everyone was to wear their favorite pajamas, and there would be prizes for Cutest Couple, Most Risque, and Most Creative.



As you can see, we were pretty much a "lock" on cutest. Donna had made these matching pajamas for the two of us many years ago - shortly after we got married, I think. She held on to the leftover fabric and when she found out that Rocket was arriving made an outfit for him as well.

Several other couples at the party had matching outfits, but no one else had our "secret weapon" - a matching baby! Donna came with us to the party as well, but her pajamas were different. If they had been the same, some people's heads may have exploded from over-cute (mine included).



Our "prizes" were the doo-dads on our heads. Happy New Year!

- Mike, Corinne, and Anders Rocket